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Now, you might ask yourself, “Should I chase him?” if you love him. However, there are various reasons why you should stop chasing a man. Note that the reason below only applies if you do all the chasing in your relationship . 1. There is no balance to it
So stop chasing him and see what happens to your mental health and confidence. 6. Men like to feel accomplishedIt is okay to have the intention for the relationship to work, in fact, you should have the desire for the relationship to work and have “ high intention” but not be anxious about it and already feeling miserable if it does not. It’s like anyone in life really. If they want to be in your life, they will be. They won’t need chasing. Ironically, the more chasing I would do, the further away I would push him until I would eventually get it and move on, not without pain.
At the end of the day, love shouldn’t be difficult. When you get into new relationships there will inevitably be challenges, but love itself, shouldn’t be hard. So you shouldn’t need to chase. If it’s not right, don’t waste time on it. So What Do You Do To Stop Chasing Men? Always assess the potential of a man both on quality AND compatibility. Set High Standards and Enforce Boundaries Think about it, what makes a woman change her mind after repeatedly telling you she isn’t interested? Did she realize your worth in the past couple of weeks? Or did she realize she didn’t have a better option so she decided to settle? You might even start thinking that you are not worthy of his attention to begin with but this isn’t true and never will be.
She wouldn’t be the first woman to be in a relationship with someone just because she doesn’t want to be alone. She might take notice of the effort you’re putting into capturing her attention and think to herself, “This man would do anything for me, I might as well give him a chance.”
That said, here are 7 reasons why men should never chase women. You will probably find an ego boost from one of them if you give up the chase. 1. You get distracted from chasing your goals There’s a myriad of reasons you should never chase women and why you should always give them the opportunity to come to you. So, let’s dive in! 1. You might become obsessed with her Women may be uninterested in you for this reason, and even if you chase them until the point where they agree to be with you, you may struggle to maintain her romantic interest. Before you leave Not always, of course. But sometimes. Because when you’re chasing men, your vision is blurred, you can’t actually see everything clearly.
How To Make Him Chase You?
When you meet someone that you really like, you can’t help but think deep down “ I want this to work, this is the perfect guy for me, I really hope he likes me” or ask yourself “What if he does not like me?” almost as if there will soon be no man on planet earth.
While you’re spending all that time chasing a woman who has told you “no” probably a hundred times, you miss out on the opportunity to be with other women who like you. I liked the idea you better not move in if you want marriage. Women see it as a step closer, men see it as postponement -and as an easy way out if they don’t fully like it-. You don’t want to be known as a girl who is desperate and chases guys as that will make good guys stay away from you instead of approaching you. He might barely listen to you on your dates and is probably always in a hurry to leave. When you stop chasing him, you can easily avoid dates that leave you feeling terrible. 7. You have time for other people So please don’t let a guy wear you down, especially if he’s not doing the groundwork there too. He’s definitely not worth it and you’ve got to have the self-respect to walk away and put yourself first.I wasn't too bothered because it didn't take too long to get through this book, and it didn't seem like a waste of my time; however, I would only recommend this book to those who want a straight to the point list of things to do or not to do when dating, but don't waste your time if you have read Steve Harvey's books.
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