His Needs, Her Needs: Building a Marriage That Lasts

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Vì vậy nên giống như là, vẽ 2 vòng tròn vậy, và tìm cái phần giao giữa hai vòng tròn đó, và cùng nhau xây dựng, trải nghiệm và chia sẻ những thói quen mới, thú vui mới.

Theo kiểu ông này với tư cách là người theo đạo mà lại viết như thế là không được, có vẻ nhiều người theo đạo Thiên chúa bị phật ý về cách tiếp cận của tác giả. No need to "fall in love" with a new person and have an affair which will obviously damage the marriage. For example, Chapman’s “words of affirmation” is Harley’s “admiration” and “transparency”; and Chapman’s “quality time” is Harley’s “family commitment,” “recreational companionship,” and “intimate conversation” (Chapman, Chapters 4 and 5; Harley, Appendix A).Harley and his wife, Joyce, are actively involved in the Marriage Builders® Online Program, which introduces couples to his highly successful plan for marital recovery.

A woman needs to appreciate her husband for what he already is, not for what he “could” become if he lived up to HER standards. While he encourages his wife to pursue a career if it is her desire, he does not depend on her salary for family living expenses. Most books on marriage deal with the importance of the man fulfilling his wife's needs during daylight hours ("women are ovens, men are microwaves") by being a supportive husband, this did not put as much impetus on the man.

identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows spouses how to identify and satisfy those needs in each other. But whatever the topic, she enjoys the conversation because it is never demanding, judgmental, or angry but always informative and constructive. Following the pattern of the bestselling His Needs, Her Needs, this book guides both new and seasoned parents through the whys and hows of sustaining romance in a marriage. In conclusion, Harley reaffirms that a successful and satisfying marriage stems from understanding and addressing our partner's emotional needs.

He does not work long hours, keeping himself from his wife and family, but is able to provide necessary support by working a forty- to fifty-hour week. I read a lot of books on relationships and marriage in particular but this was eye opening as it looked at ways to prevent affairs. My understanding is much of the material of the book comes from the 1970s, even though the first printing was 1995 and this was an updated 2001 version. If Harley purports to be a believer but desires to keep his book “mainstream,” he could still have included a chapter on (or at minimum, a reference to) sin.There is always going to be someone prettier that your husband comes into contact with to put more "love units" into his "bank. When his success rate skyrocketed in 1977, he resigned from his teaching position to counsel full-time. While some of the men's needs made me angry and seemed downright sexist, just because I didn't like them didn't mean that they weren't accurate. Quality family time means increasing the quality of family time (not to be confused with feeding, clothing, watching over children, it when the family is together for the moral and educational development of the children). This fresh and highly entertaining book identifies the ten most important needs within marriage for husbands and wives.