All That You Deserve

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When you are going through a difficult time, some people will distance themselves from you, not because they are bad people, but because they cannot understand. It’s quite possible the people who walk away from you will regret it later on. Your worth is not a reflection of how many people choose to stay. Pain can lead to vulnerability. Please don’t hold onto unsafe people in your healing seasons because you think they will help you escape from your pain. Safe people are honest. Safe people don’t distance you from the people who care about you. You have to trust the instincts within you telling you right from wrong. You have to listen to the ones who know you the best. You have to remember that someone who wants the best for you won’t take advantage of you in any way. Unsafe people will say anything to make you believe something they want you to believe so that they can find pleasure. They sugarcoat any detail they want to even if it is far from the truth so that they feel good. Please, if you let someone in who took advantage of you, don’t beat yourself up. You were doing the best you could to get through. You were hurting and holding onto any hope you could. Forgive yourself. If you are currently in a situation where you think someone might be taking advantage of you, don’t ignore the red flags. Open up to someone safe and don’t feel embarrassed. You are strong enough to get through, no matter how deep into it you are. You deserve better. There is someone who will cherish you for the person you are. If you haven’t found them yet, let go and let the universe do its work.”

You are allowed to genuinely enjoy your life. You should never feel guilty for being happy. Taking care of yourself sometimes means not always being the one to worry about others. Because if you’re always worrying about others, you will never find the happiness that you deserve. You can do what you think you can’t. You can prove them wrong. You can prove yourself wrong. You can move on from the people and memories you think you can’t move on from. You can find a kind of love that makes you understand what it means to hold someone who takes your breath away. Someone who makes you laugh until you can hardly breathe. Someone who is so tender that you find yourself holding your breath wondering how they ever became yours. You can accomplish what you think you can’t. You deserve to wholeheartedly love yourself and your life. You deserve to break free from your past and the hurt it has held you in for too long. You deserve to find whole healing and full freedom from any darkness that tries to take your light. You deserve to finally find the peace your soul has been searching for. Thank you for loving people the way you do. Even if you don’t feel it, you are so appreciated and your love is never wasted.

My Book Notes

If you feel like you can’t hold it any longer—be gentle with the way you speak to yourself and reach out to someone. Those thoughts that you feel are controlling you—tell them to someone. Someone wants to listen to you. You deserve to be heard. You are not any less than someone you think has it more together than you. You belong here. You deserve to live with a peaceful mind. Be gentle with the way you speak to yourself. You belong here. It’s okay to feel confused. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed. It’s okay to worry about what others are thinking. It’s okay to take your time. It’s okay to step away from the beliefs you’ve been told to believe. It’s okay to be figuring out what you believe. Through the process you are discovering the truth of who you are. Allow the process to flow as it is flowing. Open up when you are ready to open up. Surrender to who you are. Trust in who you are.

The way you experience living changes the moment trauma touches your soul. The way you see other people, the way you navigate relationships, the way you think and process every detail of every experience changes from that moment forward. You may not see the way it changed you right away, you may not like the way it changes you, or you may find yourself overwhelmingly grateful for aspects of your struggles because without the pain you wouldn’t have found the purpose you have. Some people become victims of their past that pollute the world with unhealthy negativity. Other people become positive forces of angelic light that touch more souls than they even know. Healing is a choice. Numbing yourself because it seems more comfortable than dealing with the trauma is a choice. The ones who choose healing are the ones who experience heaven on earth. The ones who choose healing are the light workers the world wouldn’t survive without. The healing is unfathomably difficult, but the other side is beyond worth it. Which kind of person have you become or do you want to become?Life isn’t about how much you get done every day. Life is meant to be lived in a way that fills you with a collection of moments that make you so grateful to exist. Take a deep breath and let go of whatever thoughts are making you anxious right now. You don’t need to figure it out right now. This book was produced by Chris Lavergne and Noelle Beams with art direction and design by KJ Parish. Special thanks to Bianca Sparacino for creative editorial direction and Isidoros Karamitopoulos for circulation management.

There is someone who will cherish you for the person you are. If you haven’t found them yet, let go and let the universe do its work.

All That You Deserve

Even if you don’t feel like you matter to everyone, you matter to someone and that is important to remember. Your hard work will pay off. Your efforts are not wasted and you have so much to be proud of. Don’t you see how far you have come? You are worth loving and you are so worthy of being loved. You deserve someone who will love you with no limits. You are worth loving even on the days you don’t feel you’ve done your best. You are worth loving even when you say something that makes someone upset. An apology is enough for someone who loves you unconditionally—they will understand that maybe it came from a place of pain. They will see you for who you really are and not the words you say. You are worth loving even when you mentally or physically can’t love someone the way you want to. You are worthy of being loved by someone who is gentle and patient with you. If you haven’t found this person yet, please, don’t give up. The growth you can find in lonely seasons is so important. As long as you are here, it is not too late to do the things you wish you had done by now. Living within a negative headspace of regret won’t get you anywhere. You will get to do what you want to do if you start trying to believe it can happen. The more negative energy you put out there, the less positive outcomes you will get. This is your reminder to believe in yourself. I hope you don’t believe what they did to you was your fault. Maybe you made choices that make you think it was your fault, but you have to remember we don’t always make the best decisions when we’re doing our best to simply survive. Sometimes when we’re living in survival mode we hold onto anyone who holds out a hand even if that hand is deceiving. These are the kind of hands that lie. The kind of hands that touch people for their own pleasure. The kind of hands that get what they want however they want to. The kind of hands that are weak and don’t deserve the souls they take advantage of.