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Where You At is different from Find My Friends or Snapchat’s Snap Map. It partners with NTIA venues to install Bluetooth beacons within spaces, so you can communicate with other app users even if you’re somewhere remote or underground. ‘It’s also for festivals, like Glastonbury,’ says Lauren. ‘The tech can be used anywhere.’ Never approach working girls in the street, nor respond to any who may approach you. It is also not uncommon (especially late at night on Wenceslas Square) to be approached by men who will try and offer you girls, and/or try and get you into clubs. Ignore them. Oddly, the former is far more respectful, even if you should find yourself in bed with multiple people in one night. You’re highly encouraged to find out for yourself, although I’d recommend bringing a plus one if it’s your first time.

Finally, wherever you go, use your common sense and watch what you are spending. Make sure you know the price of everything - including (indeed, especially) drinks - before taking part in any adult activities and where possible try to deal only in cash. The genuine horror stories you hear about across Europe involve credit card fraud, so play safe. Silvana Kill, director of operations for the Night Time Industries Association (NTIA), says that ‘without a doubt’ people are becoming more confident in stepping forward to report sexual assault. ‘T hat’s good news,’ she says. ‘The more people come forward, the bigger the deterrent to the perpetrators.’ According to data collected by the Crime Survey for England and Walesin 2017, women are five times more likely to have been sexually assaulted than men.That's why the Savenightlife CIC (a pillar of the NTIA, aiming to secure recognition for nightlife and live music) and the group behind ‘Lady of the House’ (the first book about influential women in the dance music scene) launched a report surveying 1,300 women to gather more evidence. It showed that 91.8 percent of women don’t feel the police do enough to make women feel safer at night, and a further 84.7 percent of respondents agreed that certain inappropriate behaviours towards women were now perceived as ‘normal’ within the nighttime economy. The big one. The world’s largest fetish and fantasy club, started in 1990, a visit to Torture Garden (affectionately referred to as TG) is considered a rite of passage for those wishing to explore and expand their sexual horizons. There are girls that call you at your hotel room to ask if you need some “help”– the (in)famous ding dong girls. Hotels bars are great because it isn't just near where you are but it's technically right next door to where who you're hitting on lives too (at least for that night). Moving a fun conversation toward a casual hookup is a lot easier when the bedroom is just down the hall. Parties (both casual and business)The only negative part of the experience was that despite the mischievous mood, as a single woman in a sea of sex offers, I still felt as an outsider, watching couples make love. Le Boudoir is a bring-your-own venue, and I suddenly regretted that we’d only armed ourselves with one bottle of wine. Finding casual hookups near where you live can be pretty challenging without a head start. Even if you don't live in a huge city there can be a lot of options to try. Unless you want to spend a lot of time and money doing all the work yourself you need to pay attention to our proven suggestions below that can make finding a hookup tonight a LOT easier. The Home Affairs Committee has launched a new inquiry, welcomed by the NTIA, to better understand the prevalence of drink-spiking and the effectiveness of the police response to it. Take part in the spiking survey here and f ind out more about spiking here .

All you have to do is select a circle of mates for the night, and you’ll be able to see precisely where they are on a map of the venue – right down to the exact toilet cubicle. If something does go wrong, you can hit SOS to immediately alert pals, and the time and location data is saved to help piece together what happened afterwards (useful for if you were drunk and your memory is a bit hazy, and you want to go to the police). Lauren didn’t report the incident because she felt that ‘realistically, she wouldn’t get a prosecution’. A year later, she wrote about her experience in a Facebook post and connected with Where You At, a safety app start-up founded by university students Tamzin Lent and Olivia Leigh. Lauren, who is now Where You At’s director of marketing, felt like the concept could help people to avoid finding themselves in dangerous situations similar to her own. ‘The big problem we're trying to solve is that you can be in a nightclub and there's no signal or service, or no way of getting in touch with your friends,’ says Lauren. ‘It shouldn’t have to exist, but what are we meant to do? Sit on our thumbs and wait until there’s a big, seismic change to certain men’s attitudes to women?’ The interesting fact is that, even if KTV is spread all around China, as a foreigner is not so easy to come across to their real function. I’ve been to a couple of KTV myself and I never had a girl overtly approaching me. I guess that you have to ask. You can always find a dancer that is willing to play perudo (a popular dice game) and maybe leave the club with you as long as you pay for her Ballantines with green tea (although having sex with her will probably cost you an extra fee). Killing Kittens (KK) is another party that’s been here long enough to see the shift in the scene. With a reputation for attracting high-flying bankers and Agent Provocateur-clad models, Emma Sayle founded KK in 2005 to create a safe space for ‘women to explore their sexuality’. But Polly*, who’s been to two KK events in the last month, says the crowd has widened. ‘It’s not full of people who’ve stepped off a Victoria’s Secret runway,’ Polly says. ‘I’ve seen men and women of all shapes and sizes, and people who keep their clothes on the whole time, because they’re just there for the atmosphere.’I needn’t have worried though, as Master Boudoir, the club’s impeccably dressed host, had already prepared a special treat for us – personalised vodka bottles.