The Dominant Wife Rulebook

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There are many different specific types of submissions, and every sub has his/her own tastes. Some of the most popular fantasies subs like to act out include: You should also discuss other aspects, like whether or not you’ll be using contraception, what kind of tools/toys you’ll be using, and how you’re going to make sure everything is as safe as possible. Power roles are an important component of eroticism. Sex is intrinsically linked with our ideas of power, and this link between power and sex is omnipresent in our culture. Noo-Way her friend Kathy remarked. Ya I know, I really want to go but I cant. Jen looked disappointedly at the ground. See Dad caught my boyfriend in my room last week at night and flipped. See my boyfriends father passed away and he's been having a hard time with the loss and all. His mom has pretty much gone off the deep end. He just wanted to be held for a little bit, he was crying when he came in my room. We weren't doing anything , did just flipped without asking what was going on. Cathy said, I'm sorry about that your dad waaay over reacted. Ps. I love this quote from you “It is not a point for discussion. I only want to know how she feels.” If my wife said that to me I would feel completely owned by her in that moment.

Some other people started to file in and the movie started. Jen was starting to get worried thinking "I hope they didn't forget to come". Her mother smiled and asked: well I guess the rumors where wrong. I see a couple of girls sitting in the theater and your father doesn't seem to care or bother moving to them. Well one night, Dave heard something down the hall. he got up to investigate. When he came up to his daughters door, her heard some whispers and his daughter giggling. Dave thought, That's weird, we didn't plan on having any sleepovers tonight. then he peeked in the door. There was his daughter siting on the bed with her boyfriend. Dave hit the roof, her barged into her room and screamed at her boyfriend, get out, get out now!! Jen's boyfriend ran to the window and jumped out, running across the lawn to the road.Many people enjoy giving up control to their Dom as they appreciate instructions and boundaries in bed. The Dom takes full responsibility for how good or bad the sex is — the sub’s only job is to do what the Dom tells them. Besides the obvious (role reversal), what are some of the key differences you see between the FLR dynamic and the traditional dynamic of domestic discipline? Through his dedicated service he gains great clarity about what his life is all about, why he exists, what life is for. He exists to serve her. His goal in life is to obey and please. By meeting this goal, obeying her wishes and pleasing her, he reaches fulfilment in his life. His life has meaning. Now ladies put your bare feet up to his face. Don't touch his face just put them inches from his face. Good, now Dave you now can see the objects of your overwhelming desire. yet you will still hate the shape and smell of them but you wont be able to resisted the sexual excitement caused by them. you will be in a state of sexual tension almost to orgasm but never quite. Abe to resist but at your torturous expense. all you need ot do is see female feet and your torture will only stop when you turn your head for 5 minutes. after just about 10 minutes both feet on either side started to wiggle and rotate like tempting snakes right next to my head. My wife chimed behind me "are you ok dear your shaking a little, are you cold or something? I mumbled um no hun I'm ok. She said are you sure? Sara chimed I hope my feet are bothering you. Are they bothering you? No Sarah they aren't. I said a little irritated but thinking but oh her feet are driving me crazy but oh how they stink. What wrong with me?

We think one misconception people might have about a FLR is that it is some weird, kinky whips and chains relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Another misconception is that some people may feel the man in a FLR is somehow ‘weak”, or a pushover. Again, nothing could be further from the truth in our marriage. Gary is a very masculine, strong and assertive man. We feel it takes exceptional strength for a man in or society to take the subservient role in his marriage to a strong woman whom he respects. We both have the utmost respect for each other, and for the roles we have accepted to make sure our marriage flourishes. Gary is very dedicated to making Kathy’s life as the dominant partner as stress free and happy as possible. He gets much satisfaction from seeing kathy happy, and enjoys “serving” her to assure her happiness. Likewise, kathy is 100% committed to meeting gary’s needs as a dedicated and loving submissive husband. When we play the part of Dom, we act selfishly in bed and use the sub for our own pleasure. This makes your sub feel like you can’t keep your hands off them because you want them so much. That desire is something a lot of women find very hot. It Appeals to Our Primal Urges Why did you feel the FLR dynamic would be best for your relationship, as opposed to the other dynamics? How you train your sub is up to you. Whether you rule through rewards or punishments comes down to what you and your sub prefer and the kind of power exchange you’re trying to act out. 8. Experiment With Impact PlayOk when you wake you will remember nothing while you were in this trance, it will be as if nothing happened. Do you understand? you will feel well rested. Girls she looked over at her sister and niece who were noticeably giggling. My wife and daughter just giggled: this is going to be so much fun lol. Then he looked over and saw, of all people his sister in law. Hi honey, he looked over at her sister. Oh hi I thought you were out of town. Good to see you. His wife looked at them both and it was clear they weren't the best of friends but they tolerated each other. Obviously, you shouldn’t go shouting about your kinks in the street to random strangers, but if the topic comes up in conversation, go ahead and share it. By bringing it up so openly, you’ll ooze confidence, intrigue, and appeal — three things that submissive women are looking for in their sexual partners. 10. Choose Dominant Positions

The title you choose is really all about personal preference. Some titles have very specific undertones and evoke certain power dynamics, and this should play a part in your considerations too. Your job as Dom is to create a safe space where they can be vulnerable, to know their boundaries, and be creative within those boundaries. Any ‘forcing’ that happens is about creating an experience for the sub and nothing more. You will accept any punishments I determine, including but not limited to spanking, cornertime, mouth soaping, writing lines, loss of privileges, extra chores, and early bedtime.

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I was 32 years old when I began posting my story, a professional consultant living in the UK; well-paid, hard working, but with enough free time to enjoy a very active and enjoyable social life. I'd been married for a little over nine years to Martin, a successful businessman whose attributes would make me the envy of many women - he’s intelligent, witty, kind, and very competent at almost anything he turns his hand to. I'll state quite openly that I love him dearly. Here's the plan to get me free from restriction. See Dad goes to the movies twice per week. Both mom and Dad give each other a me-night out where they can go by themselves or with friends and just unwind while the other one stays home. Dad mentioned he was going to see this "guy" movie this Friday. Now if I used the trigger words, mom will have me on restriction for the next year and Dad will be freed from this little "weakness" my aunt gave him. There’s a certain liberty that comes with completely giving up control like that. The sub doesn’t have to think about anything other than following instructions. They don’t have to worry about how good the sex is for their partner; they just have to do as they’re told. As such, they can fully let go of any anxiety or worry and lose themselves in the moment. The Thrill of Fear, Degradation, and Pain

An erection is a sign of respect. It’s like a salute or a curtsey. When she strips off, I want to see it rise to attention. Different subs have different fantasies and reasons for enjoying being dominated. If you want to really drive your sub wild in bed, you’ll need to understand what these fantasies are. Sarah then pulled off one of the shoes and sked the other ladies to do the same. She said to them, now as I am imprinting suggestions and trigger words in his mind I need yo to both put your and my shoes over his face so the foot smell becomes associated with pleasure. Pleasure? my wife jumped in hesitantly. Yes Sara said, I want you to rub his goin slowly as i talk to him and as he smells the inside of our shoes. A lot of elements of Dom/sub sex are degrading, humiliating, offensive, and wrong — and that’s exactly what makes them so appealing. These same elements tend to be part of most kinks because humans seem to inexplicably associate these ‘ negative’ emotions with hotter sex. I was always a bit dominant in our marriage, but several years ago my husband came to me and said he wanted a full FLR (female-led relationship). I replied that I doubted he was serious but I would write up a non-negotiable list of rules and consequences and he would have to sign a contract to accept them all. I decided to make it pretty outlandish so he would say he couldn't accept it and it would be clear he wasn't serious about FLR. I developed the list over several days, surprising myself that the first three were about bathrooms! I guess I felt more resentment about them than I realized:Good sex is all about pushing the boundaries. When we play the Dom, we enter a place where we have permission to behave in ways that we’re not allowed to usually behave due to societal norms. The main thing that all Doms have in common is that they’re trying to evoke a sense of power and authority over their sub. That’s the basic idea, and that can be achieved through a whole lot of different elements. I’m not convinced I believe the sources you mention that suggest that total abstinence is physically and mentally healthy for Sissy. You can experiment with impact play if your sub is on board with the idea, but if it’s new to either of you, make sure you move slowly.