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These sex toys vary widely in terms of looks, operation, and the sensations they provide, but fall most commonly into two categories. Do a sexy meditation, as such. You can also voice your thoughts out loud to your partner (or to a new lover, over the phone) if that works better. There’s never a bad time to invest in a little extra self-care. These are some of our favorite sex toys, vibrators, smart vibrators, personal wand massagers, and accessories, all of which we’ve personally tested. There’s something here for everyone, every gender, and every body. The language on these products isn’t always gender-inclusive, but we approached testing with a gender-inclusive mindset, testing these with a variety of different genitals, bodies, and partners. To increase the tenderness, remember that a hand job can be part of still nuzzling, kissing, and stroking other parts of the body. You can stimulate both partners with touch and kisses even if only one of them is getting the hand job." And if it doesn’t, there’s nothing stopping you from masturbating in the morning anyway. Think sexy thoughts

When you’ve got to grips with handjobs, you might want to up the ante. Chelsie Reed, PhD, LPC, a mental health counsellor and author of Sexpert: Desire, Passion, Sensations, Intimacy, and Orgasm to Indulge in Your Best Sex Life, says hand jobs get a bad rap because they seem one sided, are not always including a lot of loving and tenderness, and do not seem to include intimacy. From there, try kissing your partner on the lips, then slowly moving down, stopping to nibble and tease the nipples. So, there’s no shame in asking a new sexual partner if they’ve been tested recently, and taking extra measures to protect yourself. Some people like to do handjobs with latex gloves on, which kill two birds with one stone by adding a layer of protection and being super kinky. Who said handjobs were boring? How to give a good handjob

How to spice up a handjob

When performing the handjob, both the giver and the receiver should be in a nice comfortable position, such as lying down in bed, and start slowly. Sexual partners can explore and figure out what each other likes best through communication and touch each time they have sex, but for beginners, kissing and a bit of pillow talk might be a nice place to start. year-old IT consultant John agrees that handjobs are under-appreciated. "[Handjobs] feel good, they’re relaxing, and they’re fun and exciting," he tells Mashable. For John, handjobs are also a welcome relief from pain problems during sex. "I have arthritis in my knees and feet and having sex sometimes for me is a struggle as it's painful,"he explains. "So sitting, having handjobs or laying down isn't just easier. And it’s much more exciting than masturbating." How to prepare for a handjob

If you fancy the popular rabbit-style dildo, the Wall Banger Suction Cup Vibrator, offers ‘shivering ears’ so that your clitoris is stimulated at the same time. But they’re actually a great way to show love or a desire to offer pleasure from giver to receiver. And these [negative aspects like one-sidedness] can also be changed," she tells Mashable.While they are often referred to as male masturbators, Dr. Lehmiller says these sex toys are an option for anyone who has a penis and wants to explore new sensations. “That said, different strokers may feel better for different bodies because everyone is a little different in terms of penile size and shape, as well as what feels good to them,” he says. “For example, some masturbators are designed specifically for trans men who have started to transition. The key is to shop around and find the right toy for you and your body—and maybe consider trying a few different ones." What to know when shopping for a masturbator Got a question about sex that you're too embarrassed to ask? In the online sex misinformation crisis, getting accurate and reliable answers about sex is more difficult than ever before. Mashable is here to answer all your burning sex questions — from the weird and wonderful, to the graphic and gory. Think of us as your sexy agony aunts. And they had some success, with findings revealing that their ‘genital self-stimulation generated significant increases in systolic blood pressure, heart rate, pupil diameter, pain detection threshold and pain tolerance threshold over resting control conditions.’ The value of a really great handjob is undeniable. They allow the giver to really get to know a penis at the beginning of a sexual relationship and, compared with oral and penetrative sex, it allows for a better visual that helps the giver truly understand what gets their partner off. We’v also rounded up a few more cute and comfortable sets of sex cuffs great for beginners and experienced players. I’m a little freaked out by the idea of restraints. How can I make sure my partner and I both stay safe?

Now for the fun part. To start the handjob, figure out together where this handjob is going to lead. Leach says that whether a handjob is just a handjob and will be taken to climax, or if it’s going to be part of more extensive play leading to intercourse, is important to discuss beforehand so there are no surprises. "Pressure is also important in handjobs. Speak to your partner before, during and after the handjob about what kind of touch, grip and speed they like," she advises. If you’re really wanting to learn what your partner likes and understand their pleasure points, Leach recommends trying mutual masturbation or watching your partner masturbate. Sometimes, seeing how someone pleasures themselves can help you to pleasure them by replicating the same kinds of touch. How to spice up a handjob As for turning up the intimacy, Reed points out that handjobs can be part of pillow talk about loving, admiring, wanting to be closer, wanting to share this moment together and to give satisfaction to your partner. That’s undeniably hot. Masturbators are toys designed to enhance self-pleasure for someone with a penis,” says Justin Lehmiller, PhD, scientific advisor for Lovehoney and author of Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Carol Queen, sex educator and staff at Good Vibrations, adds that though they can be used solo, many people use them during partnered sex for “jazzed-up hand jobs.” There's also an idea that the penis-equipped can masturbate whenever they want and have exactly the same experience each time, so there's no need to get your partner to do it for you. Handjobs are wholly misunderstood and highly underrated. We spoke to sex experts, and people who love handjobs, to find out why handjobs are so great and how to do a good (hand)job. Why go for a handjob?

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The original Magic Wand was always a bit bulky. Plus, it plugs into the wall, and I've never had a sexual encounter that was improved by the presence of an extension cord. The Mini solves both of those problems. It's small, fits easily in one hand, and is not too heavy. It's rechargeable, so no need to fumble with cables while you're using it. Plus, it offers a generous 2.5-hour battery life on a single charge. The theory was explored in a study in the early 90s, when Rutgers University studied 10 women who claimed to be able to orgasm with nothing but their thoughts.