Making Love: Become a More Sensual Lover

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Ahmad, A. M. (1994). The erotic and the pornographic in Arab culture. The British Journal of Aesthetics, 34(3), 278–285. This means that a little self-exploration can definitely go far. For you, this might involve exploring your erogenous zones or discovering different ways to bring yourself pleasure, such as learning to find and stimulate your G spot. It could also mean experimenting with your fingers or a sex toy. Karandashev, V., Zarubko, E., Artemeva, V., Evans, M., Morgan, K. A. D., Neto, F., Feybesse, C., Surmanidze, L., & Purvis, J. (2020). Cross-cultural comparison of sensory preferences in romantic attraction. Sexuality & Culture, 24(1), 23–53. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12119-019-09628-0

Seductive poems are one of the most unique ways to express love and attraction towards him or her. These romantic poetries make you feel the love of your life in a way that you have never felt before. Set yourself up for relaxation and be sure to give yourself enough time to explore. Lighting a candle might be a great place to start. But make sure you’re engaging as many of your senses as possible and really allowing yourself to focus on, well, you. What sort of environment will you enjoy most? By doing this, relive your teenage years when you were involved more in such activity than sex. 6. Play with each other’s hairKarandashev, V., Zarubko, E., Artemeva, V., Neto, F., Surmanidze, L., & Feybesse, C. (2016). Sensory values in romantic attraction in four Europeans countries: Gender and cross-cultural comparison. Cross-Cultural Research, 50(5), 478–504. https://doi.org/10.1177/1069397116674446 However, when you’re sexual, your senses play a secondary role while the primary focus is on getting physical. You are mainly concerned about having sex . Examples of sensuality Tap into touch. Notice how different fabrics and textures like furs, feathers, wool, or suede feel. Karandashev, V., Evans, N. D., Zarubko, E., Neto, F., Evans, M., Artemeva, V., … Surmanidze, L. (2020). Physical attraction scale – Short version: Cross-cultural validation. Journal of Relationships Research, 11. Farrer, J., Tsuchiya, H., & Bagrowicz, B. (2008). Emotional expression in tsukiau dating relationships in Japan. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 25(1), 169–188.

It is true that a kiss leads to sex, but not always. Even some experts believe that a kiss from a loved one can do wonders for them – mentally and physically. Think about what feels good to your sense of touch,” Torrisi says. “What do you like to smell? What tastes good to you? What music or other sounds do you like to listen to? What do you like to look at? Mindfulness is the crux of it. It’s about noticing what’s happening with your senses and having fun in your body.” Anderson, S. L. (2019). Chapter 29: The importance of attractiveness across cultures. In K. D. Keith (Ed.), Cross-cultural psychology: Contemporary themes and perspectives (2nd ed., pp. 598–613). https://doi.org/10.1002/9781119519348.ch29

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Joyful body movement. This can be dance, yoga, stretching, going on walks, jumping up and down, or playing the piano or another instrument. What are the physical sensations? Comfort, A., & Dial, L. K. (1991). Sexuality and aging. An overview. Clinics in Geriatric Medicine, 7(1), 1–7. No matter how many one-night stands you do, nothing can beat the cuddling moment with the loved one at the end of the busy day. Related Reading: How To Cuddle: Cuddling Positions, Benefits, And More 4. Hold hands and show some PDA