Open House: A Gay Findom Story

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Dear CASHFAG: "I don't know why there aren't more gay FinDoms out there," says Master AJ, "but I'm certainly not the only one."

I often feel my least anxious (and therefore best) while deep in trance with one of your recordings or videos. I’ve had erotic experiences that were incredible with some, but also I have just had moments of sheer joy or just being truly calm when I struggle with that regularly. I like giving up control. I've had a good experience with this," AJ says. "It's been both profitable and enjoyable and I've made great connections with so many people, including other gay Doms. I've always really liked talking to other gay men — whether they are submissive and into FinDom or just intrigued by my profile."Just as straight gay-for-pay porn stars managed (and still manage) to get off doing gay porn, there are straight male FinDoms getting off on what they do. “I know I enjoy draining cash from men I find unattractive,” said AJ. “Being dominant turns me on even if I’m not into the person. So there could be straight male FinDoms out there who get some sort of sexual satisfaction from draining gay men but are still straight.” And it’s easy to see why a straight male FinDom who got a little turned on during an online draining session with a gay male sub might make a point of emphasizing his straightness—not just to rub his sub’s nose in it, CASHFAG, but to reassure himself. As much as I like having my wallet drained by a hot young straight guy calling me a fag, I would so much rather give my money to a hot and dominant young gay man. Why do so few gay young men get into this? Do young gay men realize how much money they’re leaving on the table? Could you please tell them?

Have the terms "uncut" and "cut" fallen from the lexicon? Are men that unfamiliar with their own anatomy? Is it a generational or regional thing? What's going on? In addition, dominatrices take their role very seriously. Financial domination has become a way of life for most. Therefore, women who practice Findom pretend to like this feeling of power that gives them the possibility to do anything with their “clients” money. Findom vs online scam Financial domination has high benefits for dominators. By managing money and accounts of the dominated, they have unprecedented financial freedom. And this can be on the short term, the medium term as well as the long term. Over my several years as a dominant cash master, I’ve consistently worked with slaves on all types of financial budgets to implement my financial control over them. When engaging with a new slave, I take the time to ask the important questions pertaining to his life (obviously the questions which relate to what I want). I learn my slaves’ income levels, their past experiences, the level of control they seek, and their specific weaknesses / fantasies. With that information, I evaluate my plan on how to control and use this slave, since all slaves differ in their abilities and personalities. Once I build a rhythm with my cash slaves and explore various areas within their comfort levels, I begin to sometimes push the limits, depending on the slave. By exploring deep inside the slave’s mind, I possess the ability to make my slaves break their limits, their boundaries, and any prior financial cash rape records they accomplished.

Moreover, on this side, needless to say that the Findom makes thousands, even millions dollars to the dominatrices per day or per month. Thus, financially, the control and management of other people’s money help dominatrices to be totally free from any need.

Just as straight gay-for-pay porn stars managed (and still manage) to get off doing gay porn, there are straight male FinDoms getting off on what they do. “I know I enjoy draining cash from men I find unattractive,” said AJ. “Being dominant turns me on even if I’m not into the person. So, there could be straight male FinDoms out there who get some sort of sexual satisfaction from draining gay men but are still straight.” And it’s easy to see why a straight male FinDom who got a little turned during an online draining session with a gay male sub might make a point of emphasizing his straightness—not just to rub his sub’s nose in it, CASHFAG, but to reassure himself. I just have to thank you for the file you made for me. I had to stop everything I was going just so I could hear it right away. I love it! It’s perfect! In addition, dominatrices may only respond to messages and calls from their submissives after receiving a sum of money that has been requested in advance. Submissives, on the other hand, only have to do what they are told and this is where the act of sexual fetish takes on its full meaning. Financial domination can be practiced within an existing BDSM relationship or can be a standalone activity. If you have a partner or friends who are interested in BDSM, you may be able to explore financial domination with them. Both the sub and the Dom have to be enthusiastic about it for the relationship to work smoothly, though, or it could feel demeaning to one party.Embarking upon the hypnotic dance of financial domination requires not only a shimmering self-confidence but also a deep understanding of consensual, ethical dynamics and the needs and limits of all parties involved. The dominatrix agrees to have full control over her submissive’s finances or to receive money and gifts from her. At the same time, submissive consents to his money being spent, without sexual exchange. What justifies financial domination? One of things I’ve been able to explore in the last year is FinDom. I really get off on sending money that we can spare to younger, hotter guys and being degraded for my pains. Thing is, almost all the guys doing FinDom are straight. It’s often a part of their persona they play up: they’re hot straight guys demanding cash tributes from “pathetic fags” that they would never touch in real life.

Slurs get used a lot in the FinDom/kink scenes,” said AJ, “and they really can sound and feel different depending on the sexuality of the speaker.” Meaning, for some gay men being called a fag by a straight guy in a safe, controlled, and consensual way—like during a cash draining session—feels more degrading (in a sexy way) than being called a fag by another fag ever could. “But other gay men prefer gay FinDoms because they don’t like hearing slurs from straight men,” said AJ. Many thanks. I know I put a lot of detail in my request, but this is far beyond what I had imagined. Beyond that I am so wonderfully and blissfully speechless! I’ve been feeling better ever since hearing you about a week ago. Your Alien Implant file had an unexpected effect on me. I’ve been feeling less pain. I’ve sustained a lot of damage over the years and started developing arthritis in my 30’s had to have my hip replaced, wrists repaired etc. I didn’t realize how much it was hurting, until it started going away. That alone is a huge gift that you’ve given me. Financial domination, just like any other form of domination, can be a powerful and transformative experience, and it can be helpful for the findom to provide support and guidance to the finsub as they navigate this dynamic. This can include things like offering advice on financial matters or providing emotional support. This can also include taking the initiative to set boundaries for the finsub when they refuse to do so for themselves. The finsub trusts the Dom enough to submit to them, and the Dom should not abuse that trust..instead, they should justify it by supporting the sub. Show Appreciation. Many people sign debt contracts because it is a turn-on. They have no plans to live up to it. To them, it’s more like a fun findom game.Why would a gay or bi male FinDom claim to be straight? Because, as AJ points out, it’s going to make him more appealing to a significant segment of the gay finsub community. “There are a lot of gay men who fetishize being bullied by straight men,” said AJ. “And a lot of gay subs enjoy the idea that they are tributing to someone who will never be attracted to them. Which I find kind of laughable, because being gay doesn’t necessarily mean a guy has a chance with me.” Some say that the submissive or dominated one gives money and leaves the management of those finances, without expecting anything in return. However, Findom goes beyond this.