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You can expect to feel discomfort, especially in your first tries, as your anus gets used to the penetration. Even the very thought that your partner is doing daily chores or cooking dinner while wearing a butt plug can be enough to excite you far before dessert time. Make the lead-up to butt plug sex just as much fun as the act itself by using it frequently, regardless of whether you’re in the mood to get it on or not.

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Your might hear people complain about having a ‘food baby’ after pigging out with one too many slices of pizza, but during sex, the feeling of ‘being full’ can actually be a turn on. This is why some women are excited by double penetration, either with two partners, or with one penis and one sex toy. Go inside your butt and then curve upwards towards your belly. Always use plenty of lube (the anus doesn’t self lubricate!) and consider douching/cleaning your anus beforehand. If you can feel a walnut-sized lump, you’ve probably found the prostate.If that happens, that will mean a trip to the ER. Your anus doesn’t have a wall, unlike the vagina. Things could go past your rectum and colon, and that’s… not where they should be. Gently contract your sphincter and pelvic floor muscles (you should feel your balls raise slightly) Dr. Fleming suggests choosing a small metal or glass butt plug, specifically, because they’re nonporous (so pathogens, like certain bacteria, have a more challenging time settling into the plug) and easy to clean. Both materials are also safe to use with any type of lube, whether water-, oil- or silicone-based. What are some tips for trying anal play for the first time?