Humiliating Her Husband (House Husband Book 29)

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Humiliation can be a part of all BDSM dynamics. It’s about the intention. It’s an act within the play itself. It may be present in: Some time around mid July, Ms. K. openly declared that she will be systematically training me to serve her more and more domestically, in addition to the already established servitude as her submissive husband. As a result, I now am responsible for “most” of the domestic chores, and for making sure her house is clean, welcoming, organized and uncluttered everyday when she arrives home from work. Both of us have never been happier.

The history of this transformation is outlined in the opening entries in the diary. Essentially, though, my story is that of a wife who was coaxed and manipulated by her husband into wearing and doing things that satisfied his sexual fantasies, and then giving him more than he bargained for when the conditioning changed her for real. Perhaps it should serve as a warning to all latently submissive men who dream of their partner taking control of them and humiliating them. In short, be careful what you wish for. The things that make us squirm in humiliation…that public type of humiliation or even the 1-to-1 type, is when we have to say the words that broadcast how submissive we are…. to have to broadcast that out loud…or in writing… to others about what sissies we are… how pathetic we can be without our Goddesses…and how we worship our Mistresses… or to admit we love wearing feminine clothes…overtly…or under our business clothes…with that fear of being detected. I think that this is an interesting post, which I presume is meant to be more provocative and eccentric than normative like other earlier posts that espouse the virtues of male orgasm control as a means of creating greater bonding and intimacy for couples (which despite the absence of first-hand experience I believe have some universal validity given different physiologies of male and female pleasure and orgasm).i have been taken to the beach and she has had me wear one piece bathing suits in very feminine designs such as pink, floral etc. By the end of the summer my tan lines are also very noticeable. She also at times has made me wear a two piece suit. she really loves the stares and sometimes the comments that are made to me while on the blanket. BTW my wife lays away from me and observes everything. Things can get quite complicated where family is concerned. Boundaries are often lower amongst family members and people feel more able to speak poorly toward each other. Household cleaning including vacuuming, bathrooms, mopping must be done no less than once per week on a set day that should be on the household chore calendar. Many women complain that chastity devices are fun when there is sex involved, such as when I am meeting my date and my husband is caged. It gets into both of our heads and creates a fun dynamic. But what about the rest of the week which is filled with work and commitments? We had some rules to remind ourselves of his role. For instance, I dressed first for work and he remained naked until I left the house. This gave him time to make my coffee, make the bed and do other household chores. The presence of the cage, made this routine a little more lively. He wore the cage to work, the gym, and walking the dog.

Hi. My husband wears a harness called the Terra Firma. It’s really just small leather straps and some adjusting rings. It’s nothing fancy but it seems pretty sturdy and I don’t even know he’s wearing it. He had to wear the device anytime that I was going on a date regardless of what his key holder allowed. I made it explicit that I would not promise that I would keep his secret from my dates. However, at first I did keep the device secret. That would change later. Our kids have moved out as well and now we can be more open (at home) with our relationship. Behind closed doors, my wife is the Queen. I'm more of a service-oriented submissive, which means I love doing housework, pampering, occassionally kneeling. No spanking or cross-dressing--we are just not into it. My job is to pamper, and my enjoyment is seeing that she gets what she demands of me (yes, it's hard to explain). Needless to say, this requires a complete trusting relationship.Leave and cleave. If ever there was a key ingredient to marital success, it has to be this. Leave and cleave. my wife is usually in charge when we role-play as S&M. however one time she was really submissive and wanted to do "anything that i wanted". i wrote down three challenges for her to accomplish. the first two were fairly easy. first she had to get an oil change for half price. may not seem humiliating but she felt kind of degraded for wearing skimpy clothing, showing some skin, and flirting with the guy. she called me afterwards and told me that she only got a 25% discount. And yes… your husband has to figure out how to position it so it rides low on his hips or else the angle is all wrong and feels weird. But just keep practicing and trying different positions. To me it feels totally natural now. This doesn’t mean I’m not loving, affectionate and attentive to Alice. I am. But I expect that she fulfils my demands when I make them and that she spoils me and she obediently completes any command that I make. My demands can happen anytime I feel like and and can be anything from wanting a drink served to doing something sexual or sexually humiliating to her.

Clearly everybody has their unique dynamics that would define differences from others, or even what you have laid out here, but what you have laid out here is excellent IMHO. Written agreement or not? It’s really not that important. What is important is that there is an agreement. I would tend to agree that a written agreement is more helpful in both people staying focused on what has been determined or agreed upon going forward. Ms. K and I had used written agreements/rules from the outset of our WLM, but later felt that is was no longer necessary or useful as our WLM matured. The work is done but not to receive a reward or to avoid punishment but for love. love to serve the person you love. I did all these things. I didn’t mean to. I never mean to hear the words I heard from my husband today – I feel shame. When my marriage went into crisis mode for reasons to long to explain here – both of us disconnected. I thought we were going to work on things together – I embarked a personal journey that I will never regret as far as what i have learned. But just knowing you do things and even reaching a point of understanding why doesn’t fix anyth Yes, every marriage is different. And I imagine if we brainstormed awhile longer, we could come up with other ways to destroy a husband’s manhood.

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