Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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If the supplier or manufacturer refuses to stand behind their product by providing information on its safe use, then choose an alternative device. Does it mean you should only engage in a limited range of sexual behaviors, a range sanctioned by your parents, friends, church or social group? A comment about that being the last he’ll see of his penis for quite a while might be appropriate, as you lock the device. The fact that you deny him sexual release doesn’t mean you can’t have sex, or do and say sexually suggestive things with him. He can come out to his wife or lover, trusting that she will appreciate his honesty, understand his submissiveness, accept him for who he really is, and perhaps even help him find what he needs.

Ring-based tube devices work by gently cradling the wearer’s scrotum between the cage and ring; the gap between these must be large enough to comfortably accommodate the scrotum while being too small for the testicles to pass through. Always ensure that the spare key is kept in a secure place, known to both you and your man, where it cannot be lost. Quite the opposite if you just give yourself permission to embrace some of those things, it can make them even nicer. Seek out reviews of the model you have in mind; ask questions of the manufacturer (and of other users you encounter in on-line forums) and don’t get your credit card out until you are certain. The things he wishes to do for you are unlikely to be an exact match for the things you’d like him to do … and guess who gets to choose?Professional-quality units (such as those used by the police) are more escape proof – but also much more costly; if you’re spending serious money anyway, then you might be better off selecting a fully customized design. If there were any specific reasons for his erotic feelings on a particular day, he should record these, too. It’s quite possible that, once you’re done reading this book, you’ll set it aside with the words, ‘Thanks, but no thanks. There’s no need for you to allow this to become an obsession: male chastity does not define your relationship; it is an adjunct to your relationship.

Alternatively, you might keep the key in a place where your man will not be able to access it; perhaps hidden, perhaps locked away by some other means (in a box secured by a padlock, for example). Exercise Two: Chastity Diary The second exercise requires your man to keep a diary during his periods of voluntary chastity, recording how aroused and frustrated he felt from day to day. Belt-Type Devices If you choose a belt-type device, you should have it custom-made for your man, according to measurements taken by, or at least under the supervision of, the belt manufacturer.Denied access to an agreeable female (or if she is temporarily unavailable), most males resort to masturbation and sexual fantasy as a 'safety valve' to release the tension caused by their biological drives. But as a by-product of his submissiveness, he’s invented elaborate scenarios involving you doing specific things to and for him while dressed in a corset and stiletto shoes (or that involve dressing him up in corsets and stiletto shoes, for that matter). Everyone of the above definitions might be true, But surely the truest definition of ‘niceness’ is that nice people do nice things for one another.

I would recommend them for anyone who is reluctant to discuss the idea with their significant other. Alternatively, you could place the spare key in a locked, lightweight box to which you hold the only key.it any more unless he has an actually problem to report – or you’ll keep him frustrated for even longer than you had previously intended. That doesn’t mean you have to dress up in leather and carry a riding crop; it means that along with his key, you take power. As a couple, you may discover that male chastity brings a new closeness and a re-kindling of desire that you had perhaps thought left behind with your dating/courtship days.

Think about it: the fact that your man is sexually submissive means that he wants you to take control in the bedroom. The massage must be applied extremely gently, and is not appropriate if the man is suffering from a preexisting prostate condition.

Then there’s the fact that men still tend to earn more than their female counterparts; that’s likely to make him the main breadwinner, which in turn gives him a lot of influence over how the household income is spent.